Shannon L. Alder Quotes: 88

• Never rearrange your life in order to meet Mr. Darcy half way. If he couldn’t see your worth at the moment you met then he won’t two years later. May the halls of Pemberly be filled with his regrets and your life filled with thankfulness because of this revelation.

• There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if they caused you harm. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense the short periods of time we get with people, or the outcomes from their choices. However, if you turn it over to God he promises that you will see the big picture in the hereafter. Nothing is too small to be a mistake.

• If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.

• Sometimes the best and worst times of your life can coincide. It is a talent of the soul to discover the joy in pain—-thinking of moments you long for, and knowing you’ll never have them again. The beautiful ghosts of our past haunt us, and yet we still can’t decide if the pain they caused us out weighs the tender moments when they touched our soul. This is the irony of love.

• Sometimes your light shines so bright that it blinds people from seeing who you really are.

• You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.

• The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't being said. The art of reading between the lines is a life long quest of the wise.

• Reputation is what others think of us; character is what God knows of us. When you have spent what feels like eternity trying to repair a few moments of time that destroyed the view others once had of you then you must ask yourself if you have the problem or is it really them? God doesn’t make us try so hard, only enemies do.

• A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman's heart.

• Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.

• Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you.

• There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your accomplishments and judge your soul. It is a fact that we all must face. However, if you realize that God is a best friend that stands beside you when others cast stones you will never be afraid, never feel worthless and never feel alone.

• There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.

• True regret is knowing you missed your only opportunity to be simply a good friend to someone that was exactly like you.

• The battle you are going through is not fueled by the words or actions of others; it is fueled by the mind that gives it importance.

• If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.

• I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?

• Never give up on someone with a mental illness. When "I"is replaced by "We", illness becomes wellness.

• You will never find the real truth among people that are insecure or have egos to protect. Truth over time becomes either guarded or twisted as their perspective changes; it changes with the seasons of their shame, love, hope or pride.

• When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret.

• The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.

• Betrayal is an ironic thing. He or she betrays you then you betray yourself. You think you’re showing strength with your anger, but in reality you’re showing how much you still care.

• When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.

• If he can't handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person's soul.

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• When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, "What was it that you wanted and why didn't you fight for it?

• You are not what others think you are. You are what God knows you are.

• When someone you love says goodbye you can stare long and hard at the door they closed and forget to see all the doors God has open in front of you.

• When a person is punished for their honesty they begin to learn to lie.

• The wise do not buy into other people’s perceptions of who they are and what they are capable of. Instead, they bypass a person’s public persona and see who they are in their highest expression. When you see actions taken with integrity, instead of words only, you will then know a soul’s worth.

• The lesson will always repeat itself, unless you see yourself as the problem--not others.

• Love doesn't make the world go 'round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

• Insanity is everyone expecting you not to fall apart when you find out everything you believed in was a lie.

• The most introspective of souls are often those that have been hurt the most.

• Often romantic relationships fail because you are trying to get someone to fall in love with the YOU that you never discovered.

• After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If you have love for yourself and others, you won’t need it.

• When relationships fail it is usually because someone chooses not to show up for the battle.

• Your attachment to unhealthy people and bad habits, which offer you no real control, is why you’re spiritually dying and living a life out of balance.

• Life always begins with one step outside of your comfort zone.

• Fear is the glue that keeps you stuck. Faith is the solvent that sets you free.

• Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go. However, your peace is measured by how long you don’t look back.

• I rather spend every Sunday of my life hanging off a cliff to rescue someone than spend one more time sitting in a pew next to hypocrites that talk about what they will do to better themselves and the world when they get around to it.

• I am not the moon orbiting around your planet; I am the sun that will burn through your frozen mind.

• To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words they can understand.

• If you want to discover the true character of a person, you have only to observe what they are passionate about.

• The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.

• When you look at the past without God’s eyes, you subject yourself to deception. The past no longer exists and God doesn’t linger there. However, Satan will show you whatever you want to see and believe, so you will be trapped in an emotion that cannot communicate truth, beyond what you want to remember.

• Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of pride and ego. Only restitution, forgiving yourself and others, compassion, repentance and living with dignity will ever erase the past.

• When you can’t reach the standards of another’s heart you must ask yourself, "What value do I put on my soul that I would subject myself to such rejection?

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• The most intriguing people you will encounter in this life are the people who had insights about you, that you didn't know about yourself.

• When you see people only as personalities, rather than souls with life missions to fulfill, you forever limit the growth and possibilities of what God has in store for another person.

• The moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the darkness, in order to be seen.

• An open Facebook page is simply a psychiatric dry erase board that screams, “Look at me. I am insecure. I need your reaction to what I am doing, but you’re not cool enough to be my friend. Therefore, I will just pray you see this because the approval of God is not all I need.

• You can have regret from yesterday, fear tomorrow, but peace today by sharing your heart’s deepest feelings. A life spent being fearful of showing your soul is a life not worth living.

• The most important thing is this: to sacrifice what you are now for what you can become tomorrow.

• My father taught me that you can you read a hundred books on wisdom and write a hundred books on wisdom, but unless you apply what you learned then its only words on a page. Life is not lived with intentions, but action.

• Beauty is not who you are on the outside, it is the wisdom and time you gave away to save another struggling soul, like you.

• Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where they are. Never settle for someone that didn't know your worth from the beginning, or build a life without God in it. Live beyond your low expectations.

• If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gift. It is one of the most powerful gifts God can give—the ability to influence.

• Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neither one has an oar to row the other to shore. You can meet your mirror image in life, but that doesn't mean you should marry him.

• Your words will either give you joy or give you sorrow, but if they were spoken without regret, they give you peace.

• When a man plays with your heart it is for one of two reasons: He knows he can or he is undecided.

• Never let your fear of the unknown and things being too difficult make your choices for you in life. One of the saddest lessons in life is finding out that your fear made the situation worse than what it was and a braver person stole the dream you gave up on.

• A Plan B life can be just as good or better than a Plan A life. You just have to let go of that first dream and realize that God has already written the first chapter of the new life that awaits you. All you have to do is start reading!

• Time is too swift for those who fear, too long for those who wait, too short for those who finally find peace, but for those who love, time is eternal. For nothing is ever lost that God wants you to find.

• No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.

• God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story will rescue others. He has always been a God of rescues and a maker of warrior’s for his grace. You only need to believe that you are part of something greater than you know.

• Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.

• There are only two ways to live your life. One as if all that matters is to have someone love and accept you. The other is as though loving and accepting another person is all that matters. Often, when you choose the second you get the first.

• The mind knows the truth when your heart denies what it feels. When you don't feel safe to let people in, it is because you're not ready to deal with the pain of honesty.

• Every game is winnable if you change your mind about what the prize should be and your perspective about the players at the table.

• Of all the questions I have asked my readers this is the most important: What would you do if you weren't afraid? When you finally give wings to that answer then you have found your life's purpose.

• Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty.

• The best kind of happiness is a habit you're passionate about.

• If life didn’t give you at least one person not wanting you to succeed then half of us would lose are motivation to climb that cliff, in order to prove them wrong.

• Faith requires following the power of a whisper.

• Many of the most powerful things in life are not tangible. All it takes is for you to close your eyes to see.

• The only way to move from your reality to God’s reality is through people who love you.

• Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you finally do know you can’t let go.

• Music is the beat of a drum that keeps time with our emotions.

• Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the end was your past, and the future is only full of beautiful beginnings through an eternity built around God’s love.

• The God I believe in believes in me and won’t silence my heart or others based on a paycheck at the end of the day.

• Every quote is like a Picasso. The meaning is different for each person and half the admirers miss the true intent and twisted humor of it all.

• Your greatest responsibility in your life is to be the best version of yourself. When you feel for what the soul believes that is who you become.

• Inspirational quotes are dances of light that shine in dark places during your life.

• God is perceived by the heart, not by your reason. But what is reason? Your heart simplifying God’s guidance to fit your own needs.

• God created philosophy for all the intellects that got bored of hearing the same bible stories every Sunday.

• Stupid quotes are only Twitters in disguise.

• Behind every angry soul is a wounded child that just wanted you to love them for who they are.